thanks for responding, guys!

Yes, Rafie, it's a date. And while I agree there will be a bizarre argument/drinking/fight afterwards, I know that there will be a great friendship immediately after. I also liked, Tosin, what your brother said, it was actually very poignant. I would really love to write some more right now, as this is very interesting to me, but I'm somewhat tipsy as we've just celebrated the 4th of July on the 2nd. Don't bother asking. Happy independance day!